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GamingGuru
Now add these things to the situation: 1. Neither my daughter nor the boy were given "The Talk" before this occurred. 2. They had never heard about sex from their peers, either, so they must have discovered genital pleasure on their own. 3. She appears to enjoy it. 4. This is all purely hypothetical, in case you're speechless at this point.
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Ha! that's actually perfectly normal. I would approach it a little at a time, letting her know that boys are not always fun to mess around with because they like to make fun of you sometimes and might like to tell their friends. So, she should be willing to be made fun of.
Also, when you "find out" from her, DO NOT act shocked. If YOU can't handle it with calm confidence, why would she trust you and follow your example?
Calmly let her know that vaginal penetration is the way we make babies, and even though her body likes what she's doing now, her parts aren't big enough for babies yet so it would be sad because she might have to get surgery to get the baby out, and that isn't fun. And BE VERY SERIOUS HERE: "How would it feel if we had to make the baby die that way? So, don't let him go inside your vagina.That's not a thing you even want to THINK about!".
Add to that that, not only do we get babies like that, but sometimes we get sick that way too, and get yukky stuff coming out of your part. And say to her casually, "I would think about that if I were you.Itchy, natsy smelly burning coming out of your pee pee isn't fun.".
I know this sounds like alot of mean ways to deal with it, but is it meaner to let her believe a lie and learn the hard way, or is better to give her the responsibility that comes with having sex? Be honest and use language she can relate to. Don't sugar coat it, either.
And above all, be patient. Make SURE she knows her vagina is off limits to his penis.
Some might say that's not cool. but I tell you- when your kid is hell bent on discovering herself, it's NO USE to deny it to yourself. So be prepared at LEAST to teach her how to play while being responsible. It's actually more realistic and do-able for her than to go the opposite route, which is to say she must NEVER do that again, which will likely just compell her to do it again, but with deeper shame attached. In other words, ~~~save the tough love for when it gets TOUGH!~~~~.
Ha! that's actually perfectly normal. I would approach it a little at a time, letting her know that boys are not always fun to mess around with because they like to make fun of you sometimes and might like to tell their friends. So, she should be willing to be made fun of.
Also, when you "find out" from her, DO NOT act shocked. If YOU can't handle it with calm confidence, why would she trust you and follow your example?
Calmly let her know that vaginal penetration is the way we make babies, and even though her body likes what she's doing now, her parts aren't big enough for babies yet so it would be sad because she might have to get surgery to get the baby out, and that isn't fun. And BE VERY SERIOUS HERE: "How would it feel if we had to make the baby die that way? So, don't let him go inside your vagina.That's not a thing you even want to THINK about!".
Add to that that, not only do we get babies like that, but sometimes we get sick that way too, and get yukky stuff coming out of your part. And say to her casually, "I would think about that if I were you.Itchy, natsy smelly burning coming out of your pee pee isn't fun.".
I know this sounds like alot of mean ways to deal with it, but is it meaner to let her believe a lie and learn the hard way, or is better to give her the responsibility that comes with having sex? Be honest and use language she can relate to. Don't sugar coat it, either.
And above all, be patient. Make SURE she knows her vagina is off limits to his penis.
Some might say that's not cool. but I tell you- when your kid is hell bent on discovering herself, it's NO USE to deny it to yourself. So be prepared at LEAST to teach her how to play while being responsible. It's actually more realistic and do-able for her than to go the opposite route, which is to say she must NEVER do that again, which will likely just compell her to do it again, but with deeper shame attached. In other words, ~~~save the tough love for when it gets TOUGH!~~~~.
How can a 16 year old boy buy high heels from payless without humiliation?
Chris Anon
I'm 16 years old and I have a fetish for pantyhose and high heels. I was thinking of buying a pair of heels and maybe some pantyhose, not to wear them but to have them to satisfy my fetish. Payless and Burlington Coat factory is down the street from where I am. I'm a little nervous because of people's reaction. Should I be doing this? How can I do so without the feeling the embarrassment?
Answer
Do exactly what the first person told you and just be confident. No one will doubt a confident guy, and most people will just assume you want them for your girlfriend or something. If they do judge, who cares? You'll probably never see them again anyways.
Good luck!
Do exactly what the first person told you and just be confident. No one will doubt a confident guy, and most people will just assume you want them for your girlfriend or something. If they do judge, who cares? You'll probably never see them again anyways.
Good luck!
What kind of paint should I use to repaint my Game Boy SP?
Q. I'm going to take apart my Game Boy SP so I can repaint the cover, and I need to know what type of paint I sould use.
Answer
spray paint, it takes 2 Min's to paint, but you really need to do all the prep work with something like this.
you just cant cut corners as it will look like a child did it!
get some scotch pads and give it a good rub down, your trying to cover it in tiny scratches, this will key the surface, giving the paint something to hold on to.
then clean very well!
now use a spray paint undercoat, you need this to make sure the paint will hold well, if not the paint will come off very fast when you use your sp.
now you scratch it up again, this time your trying to remove any particles that might have stuck to the undercoat.
as well as giving it another key.
now it's time for some real paint! yay!
just follow what the can tells you, this part is easy.
now if you want it to look clean and shiny you will want a lacquer coat or two.
key the painted surface same as before but this time using wet & dry sandpaper, 1000 grit, keep it wet while your doing it, when done dry it well, and spray your laqure.
if you use a laqure or not you will need to leave it untouched for at least a week, to dry totaly, as it's plastic, if you dont you'll end up leaving perminant finger marks all over it.
sure you still wanna do it?
spray paint, it takes 2 Min's to paint, but you really need to do all the prep work with something like this.
you just cant cut corners as it will look like a child did it!
get some scotch pads and give it a good rub down, your trying to cover it in tiny scratches, this will key the surface, giving the paint something to hold on to.
then clean very well!
now use a spray paint undercoat, you need this to make sure the paint will hold well, if not the paint will come off very fast when you use your sp.
now you scratch it up again, this time your trying to remove any particles that might have stuck to the undercoat.
as well as giving it another key.
now it's time for some real paint! yay!
just follow what the can tells you, this part is easy.
now if you want it to look clean and shiny you will want a lacquer coat or two.
key the painted surface same as before but this time using wet & dry sandpaper, 1000 grit, keep it wet while your doing it, when done dry it well, and spray your laqure.
if you use a laqure or not you will need to leave it untouched for at least a week, to dry totaly, as it's plastic, if you dont you'll end up leaving perminant finger marks all over it.
sure you still wanna do it?
How can I explain to my boy the rampant Materialism extant in the bible: The Mink Shall Inherit The Earth?
Ranjaputta
With the price of a mink coat nowadays how can that square with that rich guy passing through the eye of a needle into heaven and stuff? It doesn't add up.
Answer
Sneaky little weasels...
Sneaky little weasels...
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